Coaching for your relationship with yourself
Have you had enough of pretending that it is selfish to invest in your most precious resource? It doesn’t work, does it? One of the biggest blocks to self love is the myth that it is selfish. That if we take up space and take care of ourselves – we are taking something away from someone else. That focusing on ourselves means we don’t care about the world around us. This isn’t true.
We often wait until we have a “really good reason” to put ourselves first. Like a relationship crisis, a health scare, a breakdown. You don’t have to wait until you are circling the edges of burnout.
You are deserving now.
The act of loving yourself is a radical one – because it threatens the relationships + systems that benefit from you doubting yourself.
I help clients rediscover who they are and prioritize their own lives. I guide them to set boundaries, make decisions and take the wheel. I am known for being shamelessly generous with the permission and compassion you need to do this work honestly….and I am fiercely unwilling to let your smallness win. I know the power of deep self love – and I genuinely want to see the beauty that only you can bring to the world. The world needs you.
Every client has a different experience, and you will too. Perhaps like them you will:
- Stop building someone else’s dream and start building your own
- Find the courage to leave the relationship
- Discover who you are for the first time in years
- Move through a broken heart with vulnerability and power
- Finally understand what old patterns are holding you back – and create new ones
- Express yourself creatively in ways you didn’t realize you could
- Gain game-changing confidence in your own needs and intuition
- Stop fighting the easy way and allow your life to flow
Radical Self Engagement is a 3-month coaching program to help you create powerful and pleasurable changes in your life. It includes:
Nine 60-minute one-on-one coaching conversations. This is unfiltered, non-judgmental space for you to let it pour without worrying about being selfish or too much. You’ll have room to be a mess, and room to be a mountain.
Structure to help you stay present to this commitment and make the most of your coaching sessions. Clients who show up for this aspect alone have wildly improved results.
Access to all I have to offer – Need me to look over an email you’re about to send your ex? Have a creative dream you want to finally bring to life? Want to be called out on your limiting mindset and learn tools that work to change how you think? Book recommendations? If I have knowledge that might serve you, you can have it.
Self Love Homework designed just for you. This is completely customized for each client. What takes your breath away will be different from someone else. I will challenge you and cheer you on by giving you tasks that bring beauty and meaning to your process. This keeps you accountable, in focus and moves you towards your goals.
Three months of compassionate, kickass support. You can be weird with me. You can dream big with me. And you can count on me to champion you on as you build your self-love muscle. I’m in your corner.
About Danette
I know what it is like to doubt your own truth. To wait for others to make the call. To feel lucky, but not proud. To be working hard in relationships where you feel unseen. I know the frustration of having done a ton of personal growth work and still, somehow, making the same fear based choices – and I know what it’s like to make it worse by saying, “I should know better.”
I know that change starts on the inside. That this work is worth it. That we can end up somewhere entirely different – and far better – than we had originally planned when we surrender to self love as our compass.
I am a professionally trained life coach with a creative background. I have a knack for developing new ways of seeing the world and ourselves. My life has been dedicated to the creative process and relationships – with self love at the core. I am queer, open minded, and have navigated both monogamous and non-monogamous partnerships. I am well traveled on the sticky landscapes of the heart and I love the power of creating our relationships as we would any other work of art.
I hold the privileges of being white and being born with a female body that matches up with the gender I identify with. While I am not straight I often am assumed to be, and so I also benefit from heterosexual privilege. I am fat, but considered “small fat” which means I hold privileges that are not afforded to people in larger bodies (I fit most seats in public spaces and can still source clothing in my size). After a brain injury a couple of years ago I am navigating an invisible injury and neuro-diversity while otherwise benefiting from able-bodied privilege. I am committed to being aware of the privileges I hold, doing less harm and continuously creating more inclusivity in my life and work.
Self love is a practice, a path, and a power I have dedicated my life to. After almost two decades of being married to myself + my insatiable passion for studying all things personal growth, I know this work.
I can support you in yours.
Let’s Work Together
Radical Self Engagement is a three month self love coaching program. The total investment is $2,500 + tax CAD. Installment options are available.
Book a complimentary call with me to see if working with me is right for you.
If you have any questions, do reach out – danette@radicalcreativesanctuary.com