George, Viola and You

It might not seem like a big deal at first, but when we keep tight for too long it can be a certain kind of hell. Taking inspiration from Viola Davis and George Michael, this episode is a reminder of what your bloom is asking of you, now.

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Many Songs, One Dancefloor

Not sure what path of personal growth is for you? So many spiritual practices, so many tools, so many teachers – it all starts to sound the same. Good news…it kind of is! Be reassured that your journey of self love can be resonant and effective without needing to be “correct”. 

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Catching Up with Danette

A rambling voice note from your Soft Shoulder bestie – catching up on the Crash Bloom Book Party and reflecting on what is in the works for 2026 at Radical Creative Sanctuary.

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Grow through your breakup: crashbloom.com

Get Letters from Danette: https://www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact

Enjoy colouring ASMR with Danette on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radical_creative_sanctuary

The Decision (part 3) The Art of Self Marriage Framework

From the heart of your truth, a powerful decision emerges. This is the third episode in a 5-part series introducing the framework of the Art of Self Marriage, told through Danette’s own self marriage story.

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Grow through your breakup: www.crashbloom.com

Get Letters from Danette: https://www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact/

Enjoy colouring ASMR with Danette on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radical_creative_sanctuary

The Truth (part 2) The Art of Self Marriage Framework

From the spark of attraction, your truth is illuminated. This is the second episode in a 5-part series introducing the framework of the Art of Self Marriage, told through Danette’s own self marriage story.

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Grow through your breakup: www.crashbloom.com

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Enjoy colouring ASMR with Danette on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radical_creative_sanctuary

The Spark (part 1) The Art of Self Marriage Framework

The Art of Self Marriage begins with The Spark. This is the first in a 5-part series introducing the framework of the Art of Self Marriage, told through Danette’s own self marriage story.

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Grow through your breakup: www,crashbloom.com

Get Letters from Danette: https://www.radicalcreativesanctuary.com/contact

Enjoy colouring ASMR with Danette on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@radical_creative_sanctuary

Are Your Creative Dreams Taking Forever?

It can seem like everyone else is writing a novel or launching a business or even falling in love – everyone but you. And you’ve had an idea, a dream, for so long now that it’s starting to feel embarrassing. Should you just give up? NO! You might be shocked to hear how long it actually took for Danette to make a couple of dreams come true. There is no shame in your own divine timing. 

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Love Yourself Any Amount

When self love feels out of reach, you have a wonderful opportunity. These two words are like magical french doors opening just when you think you have nowhere left to grow.

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January Breakups and the Spark of Self Love

Why you might be breaking up right now, and how you can use language to soften the blow. Also – how do you flirt with self love from across the room?

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Being All In

If you’re looking for a phrase for 2025, this might be it. In this episode, Danette explores why people still seem to want to get married, what running from an imaginary bee can teach us about commitment, and invites you to consider what might be possible if you stopped casually dating yourself.

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