As things begin to “open up” after lockdowns, you may find yourself feeling pressured to move faster than you are comfortable. What if you took lessons from responsible kink to help you navigate your post lockdown transition? They have more in common than you might think.
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How quickly personal growth can turn against us! When you strive to be your best self, it can be easily to slip out of love and into fix-it mode. Being in a relationship where you’re never quite good enough is a special kind of pain…especially when that relationship is with yourself. This is for you who loves to grow and needs a reminder that you are someone worth loving. And you can start right now.
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Marrying yourself and dating other people? Maybe for the first time? Not sure how to talk about it or nervous about the response you’ll get?
In this episode, Danette helps you imagine what a catch you’d be by listing the perks of dating someone who has already married themselves.
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Who wants pain? How can a strong self marriage save you – and others – unnecessary pain? It’s like travelling with or without a compass. You might still get a little lost along the way, but having the clarity of direction can make all the difference.
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So often we think we’ve decided on something but we really haven’t. What happens to our energy when we do that? What do we miss out on, by not making the commitment of choice? Especially when it comes to growing and learning, making a conscious decision can make all the difference.
In this episode Danette helps you consider what you want to experience, how money can help you step into the ring and what happens when you have a Weekend-at-Bernie’s approach to your own personal growth.
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If Soul Mates aren’t loot bags that get handed out to everyone. And relationships with others don’t solve all your problems, as you may already know.
What are you waiting for? Are there experiences your heart wants but you are not allowing yourself…until? Until you meet “the one” or are gifted something from an external circumstance? Where is this taking you, really?
And what if you stopped waiting, and started building?
What if you said yes to you, right now?
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How can you date yourself when in a lockdown? How do you know if you really are committed to something? Do you force yourself to finish every book you start? What does that have to do with self love?
In this episode, Danette speaks from the heart (and from a playground!) offering many journal prompts to help you find your way into what you really desire. Getting real about what you are committed to is the first step to making empowering choices.
Ready to allow yourself a beautiful engagement period?
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Why do we fantasize about dating musicians? Danette shares her theory that goes beyond “feeling cool” and explores what we might really be after when we want to be the subject of an artist’s admiration.
What does it mean to “love like an artist” and how can we do that for ourselves?
The Art of Self Marriage program begins this September – find out more at radicalcreativesanctuary.com/self-marriage
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Have your self-visualization tools lost their spark? Were you a perky little personal growth nerd once and now feel a little….stale? What does it mean to be a fully realized you? What is the difference between a dreamy future self and an unattainable desire of “perfection”? What does self marriage have to offer in this?
You’ll want to listen to this episode where Danette takes a performance by Trixie Mattel, a mushroom trip by Michael Pollan and a comment by a stranger named Gary to help put some spring in your self-image step.
Of course you can love yourself without ever marrying yourself. Lots of people love their partners and sometimes spend decades in a committed relationship without ever saying “I do”. So how might self marriage serve you?
In this episode Danette shares the 5 ways in which self marriage serves you as a container for your relationship with yourself – and how that can also inspire some interesting changes in your relationships (and marriages) to other people.
What does her terrible cooking have to do with any of this? Listen and find out.
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